We added a new device which can expose a connected USB drive via DLNA, internally it uses minidlna which uses SSDP for service discovery. For some strange reason that rendered my *existing* minidlna (hosted on a raspberry pi) invisible. When researching the problem, it looks like neighbor discovery (which didn’t happen before as there were no other devices) uses a multicast 239.0.0.0/8 address which my rpi was blocking due to reasons (only allows traffic via the local network and a vpn gateway). My theory is that the new minidlna device took over as “primary” and then couldn’t find other peers and so the old server wasn’t visible anymore. The solution was to allow the specific multicast address used by SSDP.
#!/bin/bash
iptables -F
#Tunnel interface
iptables -A INPUT -i tun+ -j ACCEPT
iptables -A OUTPUT -o tun+ -j ACCEPT
#Localhost and local networks
iptables -A INPUT -s 127.0.0.0/16 -j ACCEPT
iptables -A OUTPUT -d 127.0.0.0/16 -j ACCEPT
iptables -A INPUT -s 192.168.0.0/16 -j ACCEPT
iptables -A OUTPUT -d 192.168.0.0/16 -j ACCEPT
#multicast for minidlna/SSSP
iptables -I OUTPUT -d 239.255.255.250 -j ACCEPT
iptables -I INPUT -d 239.255.255.250 -j ACCEPT
#Allow VPN establishment, this is the port in the config's #remote
iptables -A OUTPUT -p udp --dport 1198 -m state --state NEW,ESTABLISHED -j ACCEPT
iptables -A INPUT -p udp --sport 1198 -m state --state ESTABLISHED,RELATED -j ACCEPT
#Drop everything else
iptables -A INPUT -j DROP
iptables -A OUTPUT -j DROP